Why Your Home Might Be Inviting Chaos and How to Stop It
- Brainz Magazine
- May 23, 2025
- 5 min read
Written by Suzanne Butler, Feng Shui Expert
Suzanne Butler is a Business & Life Strategist from Australia who uses Feng Shui & Mindset modalities for successful entrepreneurs to bring balance, harmony, and abundance into their lives & business and the lives of their families to increase happiness and joy.
Do you keep getting hit with unexpected bills, break ins, or constant drama in your life? You’re not imagining it. While your neighbour’s existence seems peaceful, yours might feel like it’s under attack, financially, emotionally, and energetically. And no, it’s not just their dog that’s creating a protective barrier or a higher paying job. It could be something much deeper, something woven into the energetic makeup of your environment.
Let’s talk about the energetic blueprint of your home. Because if you’re constantly asking, “Why does this always happen to us?” you might be living in a house that’s inviting in chaos without you even realising it.
What is an energetic blueprint?
Every home has its own energy signature, and in the world of Flying Stars Feng Shui, this blueprint can influence your luck, protection, and financial flow. Just like people have personalities, homes do too, some are naturally protective, abundant, and harmonious, while others unknowingly attract drama, loss, and stress. These invisible energy patterns have a massive influence on your lived experience.
Some homes are great for people, others are great for money, and some are not great for either. That means a house can actually attract break-ins, big expenses, sudden mishaps, and ongoing stress, just by how its energy is configured. Most people are completely unaware this is even happening.
If your home is constantly:
Targeted for theft while others are left alone – even with similar layouts or locations, your home might be energetically signalling weakness or exposure, creating an unconscious invitation to unwanted attention.
Swamped with surprise bills and draining financial events — despite budgeting and planning, these homes seem to leak money and attract unexpected expenses that come out of nowhere.
Filled with tension, conflict, or unease — relationships inside these homes may feel strained, sleep may be disturbed, you are always sick, and the overall energy can feel heavy or unwelcoming.
…it might not be bad luck. It might be your home’s energy blueprint calling it in. And the longer it's ignored, the more it compounds.
What causes energetic vulnerability?
Most people think they’re just “going through a rough patch.” But here’s the thing — if your home is misaligned, it creates vulnerability on multiple levels: physical, emotional, and financial.
You may be living in a house that:
Activates energies that attract conflict or theft — certain Flying Stars combinations can make areas of your home vulnerable to intrusion, arguments, or criminal activity.
Weakens wealth flow and resource stability — homes that are not good for money will constantly feel like they’re bleeding cash, no matter how much effort you put in.
Lacks energetic protection at entry points — without protection, your front door could be letting in more than just fresh air. It could be the entryway for loss, drama, and chaos.
Triggers constant reactive cycles — when you live in a draining environment, your nervous system stays on edge. That creates a domino effect of mistakes, emotional reactivity, and poor decision-making.
Energy doesn’t lie. And once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
How to tell if it’s happening to you
It’s one thing to get a big bill every now and then. But it’s another thing entirely when it starts becoming a pattern – one that drains your finances, your energy, and your hope.
It might be happening to you if:
You get multiple “random” bills in a week — insurance, rates, fines, maintenance, and emergency expenses that stack up, leaving you financially rattled.
Your house has been broken into more than once — repeated targeting often points to an energetic vulnerability. It's not just coincidence. It's a sign.
You feel anxious the moment you walk through your door — instead of feeling calm and grounded, your home makes you feel on edge or unsafe.
There’s constant money leak despite budgeting — no matter how well you manage money, the outgoings never seem to stop and your income can’t keep up.
If this sounds familiar, it’s a red flag your home is broadcasting the wrong frequency.
What you can do about it
The good news? You’re not stuck with it. Your home’s energetic blueprint can be shifted. Flying Stars Feng Shui allows us to identify and recalibrate the energy map of your home so that instead of attracting chaos, it starts supporting peace and abundance.
We can:
Correct imbalances that attract theft, conflict or loss — by identifying the Flying Stars in key sectors and applying the right elemental remedies.
Enhance the protective energy in key areas — especially your front door, bedroom, and kitchen. These areas control safety, vitality, and wealth.
Activate wealth-enhancing sectors — so your home starts magnetising opportunities instead of draining resources.
Realign your home so it supports, rather than drains you — this creates a ripple effect across your business, relationships, and wellbeing.
With the right adjustments, your home can go from chaos magnet to protective sanctuary — a place where things flow, feel easy, and start working for you.
Real-life energy shift
I’ve seen homes transform almost overnight once the right energy is activated.
A woman simply interested in the process received a $160,000 pay rise after implementing a simple remedy.
Another client, who had no idea how they were going to be able to make mortgage and car payments that month, sold enough of their product for the payments to be covered and more after adding in a much needed water remedy
A solopreneur who was struggling to get bookings received an inquiry from an influencer and saw her move to be fully booked and needing to take additional time off.
When the house is aligned, life stops pushing back so hard. You finally get to exhale.
Your home is speaking. Are you listening?
If your life feels like it’s on a loop of "WTF now?" stop looking for surface-level reasons. Start looking at your space.
So, put the throw pillow down. Buying a new one is going to make zero difference to what is happening.
Because the truth is, energy doesn’t care how good your intentions are or how well decorated your space is. If your house is silently broadcasting instability, it overrides your mindset work, it sabotages your planning, and it drains you before the day even begins.
But once you align the blueprint?
Life. Starts. Responding.
Ready to decode your home?
If you’ve been whispering, “Why does this keep happening to us?” it’s time to get answers.
Let’s uncover the real story behind your home and shift it so it works for you, not against you.
It doesn’t matter where you live in the world; we can make functional change to your home to bring in peace, clarity, and abundance with my Abundance Blueprint program.
Book a call here to discuss how Feng Shui can ultimately allow you to live a life you truly desire, and not one you need to take a holiday from.
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Suzanne Butler, Feng Shui Expert
Suzanne Butler is a Business & Life Strategist from Australia who uses Feng Shui & Mindset modalities for successful entrepreneurs to bring balance, harmony, and abundance into their lives & business and the lives of their families to increase happiness and joy.
Suzanne has been using Feng Shui to create her dream life for close to 10 years and has seen a resounding change in her circumstances from escaping a DV relationship to living her life on her own terms. Suzanne’s life experiences have equipped her well to assist her clients through an array of challenges with great results, including increased wealth, closer family units, relationships, and significant business success.
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