From Self-Doubt To Self-Love – The Journey Of Believing You Are Enough
- Brainz Magazine
- May 7, 2023
- 3 min read
Written by: Candice Ensign, Senior Level Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
Do you constantly find yourself doubting your abilities, comparing yourself to others, and thinking that you are not enough? If yes, then it is time to stop holding yourself back and start embracing your true self. You were put here on this earth for a reason, and your unique skills and gifts can make a difference in this world. Therefore, it is time to shed the limiting beliefs and self-doubt and discover your true potential.
Recognize Your Inner Critic
The first step to embracing your true self is recognizing your inner critic. This is the voice inside your head that tells you that you are not good enough, smart enough, or talented enough. This voice could be the result of past experiences or societal pressure. It is important to acknowledge this voice and challenge its validity. Instead of believing it, start practicing positive self-talk and remind yourself of your accomplishments and strengths.
Celebrate Your Uniqueness
There is no one else in this world like you. Your experiences, talents, and skills are unique to you and can make a difference. Once you recognize and celebrate your uniqueness, you will realize there is no need to compare yourself to others. Instead, embrace who you are and let your light shine.
Let Go of Perfection
Perfection is an illusion. No one is perfect, and striving for perfection will only lead to disappointment and self-doubt. Instead, focus on progress and growth. Embrace the mistakes and turn them into opportunities for learning. Remember, imperfection is what makes us human and relatable.
SurroundYourself with Positivity
Surround yourself with people who believe in you and uplift you. Remember, the people you surround yourself with can make or break you. Seek a community of like-minded individuals who encourage and inspire you to be your best self.
Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
Growth happens outside of our comfort zone. Therefore, it is essential to challenge yourself and take calculated risks. Don't be afraid to try something new or tackle a project that scares you.
The more you step out of your comfort zone, the more you realize your true potential.
You are enough
Embrace your unique self and share your gifts with the world. Once you let go of limiting beliefs and self-doubt, the possibilities are endless. Remember, no one else in this world is like you, and your contributions can make a difference. So, the next time you hear that inner critic whisper you are not enough, remind yourself that you are and take steps to embrace your true self. The world needs your light.
Candice Ensign, Senior Level Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Candice Ensign is a speaker, thought leader, and passionate purpose hacker. She coaches top leaders nationwide and is a source of inspiration to equip others to realize their purpose, find their voice and unlock their unlimited potential. In a world where conformity reigns, Candice is a trailblazer for those looking to rediscover themselves.
Candice has deep love and respect for horses and raises awareness of the gifts they have to give outside of being ridden. Candice founded the non-profit organization Journey with Equus in 2015. Journey with Equus is an organization that rescues horses that would otherwise be euthanized or slaughtered. Instead, these beautiful animals are rehabilitated and are partnered with humans to help them heal trauma, grow leadership, and rediscover themselves through equine-facilitated health and wellness programs.
Candice knows the importance of continual personal development & is constantly learning and pushing herself to be the best version of herself to help others commit to their personal growth goals.
She has 30 years of experience in the real estate industry as a producer, leader, coach, and speaker.
Candice is an Independent John Maxwell Speaker, Leadership Coach & Teacher, a Certified Equine Gestalt Equine Practitioner, a student of Max Stroms Breathe to Heal and Qi Gong through Michael Winn’s Healing Tao USA.
Candice leads her life by example, even through challenges and hard times, she is an example of what is possible when one has faith, determination, and a commitment to taking action.
When Candice isn’t speaking, writing, or coaching, she spends her time with her son, ballroom dancing, hiking, traveling, or simply chilling with the myriad of animals that make up her ranch in Elizabeth Colorado.
