From Confusion To Clarity – The Key To Overcoming Obstacles And Achieving Your Dreams
- Brainz Magazine
- Oct 11, 2024
- 5 min read
The Soul Compass guides you to Live & Thrive in alignment with your true nature, to uncover your authenticity, and start taking steps towards your Dream Life by following your inner wisdom.
There was a time, not so long ago, when I questioned everything. My business, my purpose, even my abilities. I had poured years into my work as a psychologist and holistic coach, learning countless tools, modalities, and ways to help people heal and grow. But despite all my knowledge and efforts, I hit a wall. No clients. No momentum. And an unsettling feeling that maybe I wasn’t on the right path after all.
I wrestled with that doubt. Should I give up and pivot into something else? Who am I to..? These questions weighed heavily on me, and I couldn’t ignore the persistent feeling of being lost.
But here's the thing: I couldn’t walk away. Something inside me kept whispering, “Keep going.” Deep down, I knew this wasn’t about abandoning my calling but about realigning with it. So, I leaned into the discomfort, faced my fears, and did what I helped others do: I trusted my own journey and kept moving forward.
Finding clarity in the chaos
That’s when the breakthrough came. I realized the blocks I was facing were exactly what I was meant to help others overcome. My calling wasn’t just about providing healing tools or coaching strategies. It was about using my own journey as a living example of what’s possible. I realized that my role was to guide others not just to success but to soul-aligned success, to a life where their business, personal growth, and spiritual journey are all interconnected.
I’m here to say that the obstacles, doubts, and fears aren’t signs that you’re failing. They’re part of the process. They’re your teachers. And once I embraced that, everything started to shift for me.
Turning struggles into strength
I’ve come to see that life, and especially business, is a continuous journey of growth. The struggles are opportunities to learn, evolve, and strengthen your resolve. It’s in those moments of doubt and challenge that you find out what you’re truly made of. I didn’t give up on my vision because I knew that beyond the fear was something more powerful –> my purpose.
And the same goes for you.
I’m here to remind you that we’re in this together. We all have dreams that feel too big at times and goals that seem out of reach. But every step forward, every bit of discomfort you push through, gets you closer to that dream. It’s not about having it all figured out from the start. It’s about trusting that you have what it takes to figure it out along the way.
Perseverance and passion: The keys to success
What I’ve learned on my journey is that perseverance and passion are non-negotiable. The road may get rocky, and the doubts may creep in, but it’s the commitment to keep going that will get you there. You don’t have to have all the answers right now. You just need to take the next step, trust your inner guidance, and remember why you started in the first place.
Your business, your dream, is an extension of you. It’s where your passion meets your purpose. It's your Divine expression. When you feel stuck or uncertain, go back to your "why." Why did you begin this journey? What impact do you want to have? What if you could positively change the life of one person – wouldn't that be worth it? The answers to these questions will keep you grounded, even when things don’t go as planned.
The power of tools and mindset
I’ve been lucky to have gathered many incredible tools and modalities through the years. Things like breathwork, Soul Body Fusion, Akashic Records, Human Design, EFT/Tapping, and many more.
They’ve helped me tremendously in staying on track. But it’s not just about having tools; it’s about using them and having the mindset that you can overcome whatever blocks arise.
And that’s what I want to share with you. I have the tools, I have the insights, and I’m here to guide you. But at the end of the day, it’s about you believing in yourself enough to keep going. Your dream is worth it. The world needs what you have to offer. You just need to make the decision to allow yourself to go after your dreams. And no matter how hard it gets, remember: you are not alone. We are all walking this path, learning, growing, and evolving!
Let’s do this together
If I can leave you with one thing, it’s this: you don’t have to do it perfectly, you just need to start. Take the first step. Trust yourself and your inner guidance. Reach out for help when you need it. You have everything you need inside you to create a life and business that not only sustains you but fulfills you at the deepest level.
I’m here to show you what’s possible, to share what I’ve learned, and to walk beside you on this journey. Together, we can turn those blocks into breakthroughs and make your dream life a reality.
So, let’s do this. Keep going. Your purpose is calling, and the world is waiting.
Kinga de Wit, Transformational Guide, Soul Embodiment Coach, Catalyst for Change
The Soul Compass guides you to Live & Thrive in alignment with your true nature, to uncover your authenticity, and start taking steps towards your Dream Life by following your inner wisdom.
Services: Human Design, Akashic Records, Soul Realignment, Soul Body Fusion, Polyvagal theory, Nervous System Regulation, Trauma-informed Practice, NLP, OldPain2Go, Inner Child Work, Breathwork, EFT/Tapping, Spiritual Mentorship, Embodied Manifesting, Somatic Work, Conscious Parenting, New Paradigm Business Coaching (Energy + Strategy), Feng Shui, and many, many more.
Me? I'm Kinga de Wit: Aries, 6/2 Human Design Splenic Projector, and my name means "leader of the people." I'm a wife and a mother to a 4 y.o son (almost 5!) and 2 dogs. I'm originally from Warsaw, Poland. I've lived most of my life in the Netherlands and relocated to Spain in August 2023. I grew up with East-European, Eastern (Chinese), Dutch Caribbean, and Western cultures.
I love to sing, write, and take pictures. And I'm an incurable optimist. I believe that we are powerful beings and that we can heal ourselves and the world by standing in our true Power and by letting the love for ourselves overflow into Universal Love.
My knowledge is not "just" theoretical. Everything I teach I am practicing myself. I've experienced my share of struggles, breakdowns, and challenges (like depression, anxiety, burn-out, chronic pain, allergies, trauma, chronic fatigue, being disconnected from my emotions and intuition, etc). I overcame it all and now I love to share what I've learned with others guide.
