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Communication In Marriage – Tips For Better Connection

Written by: Felice Mathieu, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

 

In the Christian tradition, marriage is considered a sacred union between a man and a woman. Effective communication is essential for maintaining a healthy and loving relationship, as it allows spouses to understand each other's needs and concerns. Failure to communicate properly can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts that can cause emotional pain and distance between spouses. As Christians, we believe that marriage is a reflection of the divine love and commitment between God and his people. To help couples improve their communication skills and strengthen their bond, let’s discuss some practical tips couples can consistently apply to greatly improve the communication in their marriage.

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4 Communication Styles in Marriage


There are four main communication styles in marriage, which are:


Passive: Avoiding conflicts and expressing oneself indirectly


Aggressive: Using threats and intimidation to get what one wants


Passive-Aggressive: Expressing hostility indirectly, through sarcasm or manipulation


Assertive: Communicating clearly and respectfully, while expressing one's needs and boundaries


It's essential for couples to understand their communication style and work towards being more assertive in their communication.


5 C's of Communication in Marriage


The 5 C's of communication in marriage are:


Clear: Being clear and concise in your communication


Concise: Avoiding long-winded explanations or arguments


Considerate: Being considerate of your partner's feelings and perspective


Constructive: Offering constructive feedback, rather than criticism or blame


Courteous: Being polite and respectful in your communication


Practicing the 5 C's can lead to more effective and positive communication between couples.


The Importance of Communication in Marriage


Communication is crucial in any marriage because it helps couples:

  • Understand each other's needs and desires

  • Resolve conflicts and misunderstandings

  • Strengthen their emotional connection

  • Build trust and intimacy

  • Lack of communication, on the other hand, can lead to resentment, mistrust, and ultimately, marital breakdown.

How to Communicate Effectively in Marriage


To communicate effectively in marriage, here are some tips:


Listen actively: Pay attention to what your partner is saying and respond with empathy.


Express yourself clearly: Be clear and direct when expressing your thoughts and feelings.


Avoid criticism and blame: Instead, use "I" statements and focus on your own feelings and needs.


Practice patience: Give your partner time to express themselves fully without interruption.


Use positive language: Focus on what you want, rather than what you don't want.


Seek help if needed: If the communication continues to be a struggle, consider seeking the help of a professional marriage counselor.


If you're having marriage problems and are looking for additional resources and support, we encourage you to check out marriedasone.com. As a Christian marriage coach, I am committed to helping couples build healthy and happy marriages. Don't struggle alone, reach out for help today."

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Felice Mathieu, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Felice Mathieu is a seasoned Christian marriage and family coach with over 25 years of experience of coaching couples. He holds a B.A. in Christian Counseling Psychology and a Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, making him an expert in the field. Felice, together with his wife Retta, founded Married As One LLC, a ministry committed to providing biblical coaching services to couples. Through Married As One LLC, Felice and Retta help couples learn critical biblical skills that inspire better communication and foster stronger relationships. Contact Felice today for effective Christian marriage coaching that helps spouses communicate fairly and respectfully.

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