Are You Demonstrating What You Really Want?
- Jul 19, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Feb 5, 2024
Written by: Halldór Bergmann Halldórsson, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
I do need to explain on a deeper level so you can relate. Let‘s say that you want a relationship! But you demonstrate that all women and men are the same.
They are this and they are that... hang with me!
You talk with your friends about it and you basically blame them about how they are you even post something negative about men and women...
Even though you see someone who you think is attractive you just look away or you pick up your phone so that you look busy...
Does it look like you want to meet someone new...?
Are you demonstrating what you desire with another words are you aligned with your desire?
Shall I keep going?
You want a job but you demonstrate that all recruiters don‘t understand you and don‘t get back to you!
So you write a post on it on LinkedIn and guess what happens?
The comments are full of people that are comparing scenarios on how awful recruiters are they empathize you and you and others are sharing stories how awful recruiters are.
Shall I keep going?!
You want to get in shape but you demonstrate that you are on the couch with potato chips and coke in the other hand and say to yourself you start tomorrow!
As you can see this is creating separation between you and your desires with other words it‘s making a gap between you and your desires!
Are you getting closer what you want when you blame others and live in victimized behavior?
Here is my tip!
It is crucial that your behavior is demonstrating with what you want!
As well as that energy which is bringing!
I do recommend to do a little inventory!
That means to take a look on how you have been!
Yes it is challenging for us people to dive in and see us selves and see how we have been!
By my own experience it‘s very liberating to do a inventory!
By doing a inventory you are getting closer with your desire with other words you are closing the gap between you and your desires!
If you are having a hard time for to do it yourself?
I do recommend to hit up with a coach!
"Yes, I know of course I do that“!
It is very good to have a coach who is supportive as well off challenging you to take off in life as well is showing deep empathy in your journey!
Halldór Bergmann Halldórsson, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Halldór Bergmann Halldórsson is a coach who helps people to develop from the inside and out. After going through many stages in his life he started the journey on himself when he quit using drugs and alcohol daily for 5 years after that he has transformed himself in many ways and is inspiring and helping people who wants to change themselves! In his journey he has developed spiritual gifts that has helped him to see right through people who comes into his life! Like he says choose people who lift you up!
