You Were Born to Make a Difference – A Call to Rise in a World That Needs You
- Brainz Magazine
- Jul 15
- 4 min read
Updated: Jul 16
Written by Frank Pullia, Life Coach
Frank Pullia leverages a distinguished career in finance and politics as a motivational speaker and coach, inspiring transformation and peak performance.
We are living in a time when the world seems to be spinning faster than we can catch our breath. Political upheaval. Economic uncertainty. A rising tide of anxiety. Many are quietly asking: “What difference can I really make?”
Let me offer you this truth:
You were not born to merely survive this world. You were born to shape it.
Whether through your words, your energy, your compassion, your work, or your presence, you hold the potential to influence lives, to ease burdens, to light paths for others. But that difference begins with a journey inward.
The power of one aligned life
In my upcoming book, 'The Art of Life Management: Using Ancient Wisdom for a Better Life in an Uncertain World', I explore a truth I’ve lived and learned: before you can change the world, you must learn how to master your inner one.
For years, I chased success the way many of us are taught to, through hard work, accolades, and accumulation. But it was only when I hit the limits of stress and burnout that I understood the deeper equation of purpose:
Energy + Compassion + Alignment = Sustainable Impact
You cannot give light from an empty lamp. You cannot offer clarity from a clouded mind. You cannot uplift others while drowning in your own exhaustion.
This is why making a real difference begins with refueling your own body, mind, and spirit.
Breathwork. Stillness. Movement. Sleep. Connection. Not luxuries but essentials. They are what allow you to be present, to listen, to uplift, and to act from strength rather than strain.
Ancient wisdom, modern courage
Drawing from martial arts and timeless teachings like 'The Art of War', I began to see that the best warriors are not those who conquer, but those who flow. They understand:
Themselves: their nature, gifts, limitations.
Others: their motivations, fears, and humanity.
The Terrain: the circumstances in which they act.
When we move with this level of awareness, something beautiful happens. We stop reacting. We start responding with clarity, purpose, and grace.
This is how real change is made, not through noise, but through presence. Through people like you choosing to show up more consciously every single day.
From Italy to Canada: A personal journey of impact
When I came to Canada from Italy at age seventeen, I had little more than a suitcase and a heart full of determination. Over the years, I’ve had the honour to serve in public life, lead economic development initiatives, advocate for youth, and guide businesses and individuals alike.
But the proudest moments weren’t always the public ones. They were the quiet times, mentoring a young person who felt lost…
Lifting a colleague out of despair… Creating a financial plan that gave someone back their dignity... Showing up for my family when they needed me most.
That is what making a difference truly means: being there, fully, when it counts.
You don’t need a stage. You need intention
You don’t need a title, a platform, or a million followers to change lives.
What you need is:
A grounded inner life
A heart open to others
A willingness to act, even when no one is watching.
You can be the reason someone doesn’t give up. You can be the voice that calms, the hand that helps, the smile that heals. You can plant seeds in others that bloom long after you’ve left the room.
How to begin making a difference, today
1. Reclaim your energy
Breathe deeply. Rest fully. Eat consciously. Move regularly. You’re not just caring for yourself, you’re preparing to be of service.
2. Lead from compassion, not control
Don’t impose. Instead, listen. Respect. Offer. Let others lead their own transformation.
3. Live the wisdom, not just the words
Detachment doesn’t mean indifference. It means serving without being enslaved to outcome. Help with love, not ego.
4. Stand tall, even in the storm
The world is chaotic, yes. But you can be the eye in the hurricane. Still. Certain. Anchored in purpose.
5. Act now, imperfectly
Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Start where you are. With what you have. Do what you can.
The world is waiting, for you
There’s a unique difference that only you can make. It may not always be visible. It may not be celebrated. But it is real. And it is needed.
So, when you wonder whether your life matters, remember this:
Every healed heart you touch, every person you lift, every moment you offer presence in a world addicted to distraction, is how you change the world.
Not later. Not someday. Now!
So rise. Reclaim your energy. Open your heart. Step into alignment.
You were born to make a difference. And the world is better because you’re here.
Frank Pullia, Life Coach
Frank Pullia is a renowned speaker and motivational life management coach known for his insightful blend of ancient wisdom and modern strategies. With extensive experience as a business consultant and former city councilor, he empowers individuals and organizations through strategic and political foresight and holistic wellness. Frank is currently authoring a book on the art of life management, aiming to guide others to thrive in an uncertain world.
