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You Are The Lover And The Beloved – My Top 10 Affirmations Of Self-Love To Romance Yourself

May 17, 2023
3 min read

Updated: May 19, 2023

Written by: Marja West, Executive Contributor

Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.

Hello, my beloved Waking Gods and Goddesses! Many of you have contacted me, sharing your woes and confusion around Self-Care, Self-Love, and Self-Talk, especially when life happens, and demands more than what you’re available for.

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We all can get caught up in the details of our daily lives in our often-failed attempts to control life and the world. I equate that way of living as stressful. We also tend to look outside ourselves for validation, and when we don’t receive it, we collapse and go into a hyperdrive of more doing to quell the pain—resulting in even more STRESS.


As per Neville Goddard’s directive, I suggest engaging in loving Self-Talk (like Affirmations) to go to the end result and dwell there—thinking feelingly. In doing so, we honour the Law of Assumption that whatever we intend is Given.


The Fast Track to Materialisation


In response to numerous requests for my favourite Affirmations, I share my Top 10 Affirmations, Declarations, and Mantras that, when applied with the Hermetic~Natural Law Principles to your activated and most loving intentional uplevelled Self-Talk, cut through the noise, static, and bullshit of stressful, chaotic living.


Hands down, I consider Affirmations, Declarations, and Mantras the Fast Track to manifest my uplevelled reality and practising FLOW states.


I’m talking serious Reality Transurfing – Reality Creation Quantum Jumping Mastery, where all pretenders of the Transurfing, Law of Attraction, and Phony Reality Creators get left behind in their self-induced funk and distortions.


There are no shortcuts to Mastery, kids! If you don’t get that, you’ve not been paying attention to your ongoing struggles, and the one common denominator is our challenges’ pesky culprit. Neville Goddard would not be wondering what the hell is happening with you.


Faulty Thinking


The major problem is obvious: Faulty thinking—incorrect or zero understanding of the First Hermetic~Natural Law Principle of Mentalism.


You will NOT master Reality Creation and mould reality outside of the Matrix at will if you are focused on anything other than your Divinity and the kind of life you want to live. And if you focus on your Divinity or Godself, rather than highlighting any stressful shitshow of the Matrix and your world, then you’re holding everyone else and the Universe Large.


Remember: Your current circumstances are based on faulty thinking and less-than-stellar beliefs.


Neville Goddard extolled: We have been given the gifts of Mind and Speech. So, it would be best if you learned to think feelingly.


You Are Here to Move Formless into Form


Your process of Becoming and Completion is in Perpetuity; you can’t ever get it all done, as Abraham-Hicks would say playfully. So, relax; you are a Grand Creator, here to move Formless into Form; play with Mind and Speech, watch miracles and delights of epic proportion surround you, and seek you out.


You are the Lover and The Beloved, so romance yourself with loving Self-Talk.


Here are my Top 10 Loving Self-Talk Affirmations, Declarations, and Mantras (in no particular order):

  1. What I want wants me.

  2. My Universe romances me.

  3. What I love loves me.

  4. I am complete within; my inner and outer reality is a Match.

  5. My Universe takes care of me.

  6. My Universe handles the details.

  7. I am love-in-a-body.

  8. What I Imagine imagines me.

  9. Everything and everyone prospers me now, and I prosper everything and everyone now.

  10. My beautiful Universe reflects my beautiful Self inside and out.

Let us further affirm our intentions to practice Flow States:

  • I am here to move Formless into Form in my Divine State of Flow.

  • I allow my creative inspirations to Flow through me and into materialised reality, populating the True Quantum Field Creation Field Universe.

  • I make Flow my priority living my life with ease and grace.

  • I accept myself as I am.

  • I accept others as they are—different from me, yet Divine like me.

And so, it is.


Okay, my darlings, that’s it for now. I trust you found this helpful. Happy Discoveries and wonderful Self-Love manifestations. Feel free to write to me and share your experiences.


Here’s to Love, Truth, and Beauty!



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Marja West, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine

Marja (pronounced Mahrrr-ya) West is an author, mentor of The Hermetic~Natural Law Principles, and a leading expert in Energy Mastery, Reality Creation, and Trauma-Based Mind Control DeActivator focusing on handholding survivors of Human Trafficking, Rape Camps, Satanic Ritual Abuse, Cult/Tribal, and NSP Abuse (Narcissistic-Sociopathic-Psychopathic), to evolve from Victim to Victorious. Well-known for her zero-filtered-laugh-out-loud humour and disarming, electrifying presentations, Marja is the author of the book F'd Wide Open: The Rude Awakening of the Heart-Based New Humanity. She is also a medical intuitive, martial artist, singer, multi-instrumentalist-musician, dancer, and plant lover.

 
 

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