Why Do People Fear The Therapeutic Space?
- Brainz Magazine
- Nov 28, 2023
- 3 min read
Written by: Dr. Nicole Nasr, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
Imagine you're standing at the entrance of an uncharted sea. The waters are deep and mysterious, stretching out into the horizon. The possibilities within this vast expanse offer you the chance to navigate unexplored territories of personal growth, self-discovery, and healing. However, a hesitancy holds you back; your heart is uneasy, unsure about setting sail into the unknown. If this resonates with you, rest assured, you're not alone. For many individuals, the thought of therapy mirrors the uncertainty of setting sail on that enigmatic sea—it involves navigating uncharted emotions, being open to new experiences, and confronting the depths of the unknown.
Fear of the unknown
The human mind often grapples with the uncertainty of the unfamiliar. What will therapy be like? Will the therapist truly understand? These questions can create a sense of apprehension, deterring individuals from embarking on a therapeutic journey. It's essential to recognize therapy as a personalized expedition, where answers unfold gradually, revealing valuable self-discoveries along the way.
Stigma and misconceptions
Despite societal strides in mental health awareness, lingering misconceptions and stigmas can cast shadows on the decision to seek therapy. The false belief that reaching out for help is a sign of weakness or instability remains pervasive. Breaking through this barrier involves understanding that therapy is an act of courage, a pathway to personal growth, and not an admission of vulnerability.
Vulnerability
The prospect of opening up about one's deepest fears, insecurities, and past traumas can be daunting. Many individuals are accustomed to concealing their emotions, making the act of vulnerability seem like an insurmountable challenge. However, recognizing therapy as an opportunity to unlock the door to one's inner world, where strength and healing emanate from vulnerability, is crucial in overcoming this fear.
Facing painful memories
Therapy often involves revisiting challenging memories or confronting behaviors that one may prefer to avoid. This can be emotionally taxing but is an integral part of the healing process. Unprocessed emotions act as baggage, hindering progress. Facing and processing these memories, with the support of a therapist, is essential for moving forward.
Fear of change
The fear of change is deeply rooted in the disruption it brings to familiar routines. Therapy has the potential to initiate transformative changes, unsettling at first, but ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and joyful existence. Acknowledging and embracing the positive aspects of change is crucial in overcoming this fear.
Fear of judgment
The societal inclination toward judgment adds another layer of reluctance. Fear of being judged for seeking help can hinder individuals from fully engaging in the therapeutic process. Establishing the understanding that therapy provides a judgment-free space is fundamental to overcoming this fear, allowing for authentic expression and healing.
At Journey, we understand that addressing these concerns is vital in creating a space where individuals feel empowered to take the step towards therapy, in order to foster self-discovery, resilience, and well-being. We advertise therapists that offer a variety of approaches ensuring a diverse range of options to suit the needs of each potential client.
Dr. Nicole Nasr, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Dr. Nicole Nasr is the founder of Journey, a matching platform between clients and practitioners. After qualifying as a psychologist, she began her career working for two practices, but as time went on, yearned for greater flexibility and autonomy. She turned to Instagram which brought her 36 clients in just nine months, but soon discovered that filming herself, managing her account, and creating content was overwhelming and didn't align with her passion. Driven by the belief that she couldn't be the only one facing these hurdles, the concept of Journey was born. Dr. Nicole envisioned a platform that would free practitioners from the burdens of self-advertising, so they could wholeheartedly focus on their clients.
