The Secret Is To Never Give Up
- Dec 19, 2022
- 4 min read
Written by: Dr. Hynd Bouhia, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
Creating success and wealth is not an easy journey. It doesn’t feel like riding a musical train at Disney World. It can be tough, painful, long, lonely, and very hard at times. The secret is to never give up. And the how is the million-dollar question.
It takes resilience
You need to retreat inside of you when it gets too hard to handle, too hard to be. What you retrieve inside of you is resilience, strength, and fortitude. Because what happens at that moment, is that on the vibration scale you are at the lowest, or at the bottom. And to rise up feels immense, overwhelming, and seems impossible. I have been there, I know what it is. That’s the moment when you hold on to that smallest light you can see. It could be just a plant you watch grow every day. Or your child you see becoming more confident with each moment. It can be a song you start loving, or a “never give up” quote you grow to understand more each day. You can also choose to find expertise for you to start mastering a bit more every day. That progress is you being reborn. And that progress is you emerging like a phoenix from the ashes. Often the deepest pain and the toughest challenges will empower you to grow into your highest self.
And finding a true mission
This is why I grew through the Believe-Act-Lead ¹ Method by seeing how it helped women quantum leap into a higher version of themselves. Just like Yasmine launched her new old jeans recycling brand after a big impact of the pandemic on her Communication Agency. Similarly, Sandra was nominated board member in a large, international financial institution after regaining confidence and honoring herself with respect, love, and appreciation. Daily work and a morning routine proved incredibly efficient. And also, Firdaous got a high-level executive position at an international investment bank after two years of health struggle.
By being in the midst of these incredible ladies, I felt how I was helping. Plus, the role I was playing helped me feel useful and valued. It was a way for me to reconnect with my mission more and more and to embody it truly. I also grow and power up every day and I mature in the role I know I’m destined to play. This is possible because I deeply believe in the infinite power of the divine and that everything happens for a reason.
When I was stuck for two years, I couldn’t see the wisdom from the bitterness of the moment. However, as I look back today, I realize it was feedback from the universe, because I had a bigger calling. Becoming a voice for women brings a thrill I could not have discovered without going through pain, reaching rock bottom, and pushing myself up again. I know what it is to be hurt, betrayed, and lose everything you’ve ever worked for.
Then create your own roadmap to success
I created a roadmap to success from my own journey and my own rebirth.
If you are feeling stuck in daily habits and frustrated with the day being too short to get everything you’ve planned completed, I’ve put together a recipe ² that helped me and hundreds of women to date. As a visionary woman who wants to impact the lives of multiple people with her business, I know what it’s like to be juggling so many things at once. I can also relate to the frustration you might feel when things seem chaotic or out of your control. What we need to understand is that our state, on a daily basis, dictates the type of results we create for ourselves, and in order to be successful, we cannot be operating out of a place of frustration. In order to get into the frequency of reaching success, you need to first trust the process of creation and of business growth. Nothing happens overnight, so keep a success mindset throughout the journey.
Because we all function with energy, you need to clear yourself from all the energy that isn’t serving. That will be all the past mistakes, failures, setbacks, or anything that didn’t go the way you wanted. You must honor yourself and stand for your word as if it was a law. In practical terms, it means that your most important objective is to seek excellence in your expertise by pushing yourself to become greater tomorrow in what you do than how you are today. In addition, honoring yourself means treating yourself with respect and consideration. This is how you would work on your self-image so that you build a strong belief about your success and that you deserve the best.
Finally, have faith despite the obstacles and the struggles, and believe in your intuition and the power inside of you to guide you to reach the success you are seeking. Make up your mind and carry out the decision to shift your attitude and seek success and excellence because you deserve the best life.
Dr. Hynd Bouhia, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Dr. Hynd Bouhia has cumulated more than 20 years of professional experience in high-level and leadership positions, covering investments, financial structuring, entrepreneurship, and sustainable development strategies. Hynd Bouhia was nominated by Forbes among the 100 most influential women in the world in 2008 and among the most influential women in Business in the Arab World in 2015 and honored as a member of the Johns Hopkins Society of Scholars in 2018.
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