Written by: Beth Brown, Executive Contributor
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Greetings, Beloveds! I hope you caught the previous two articles where I introduced the Erotic Blueprints™ and how knowing what our Blueprint is can break us open to the Great Awakening of our divine erotic power.
If not, before we go any further, click HERE to take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz™ to determine what your Erotic Blueprint is and take a screenshot of your results so that you’ll remember.
Got your Blueprint? Perfect!
Now follow me as we delve a little further into determining, feeding, and speaking the Blueprints!
Now that we’ve determined what your Blueprint is via the quiz, another way I help my clients discover their unique Blueprint is by guiding them in a tantalizing game called “The A/B Game.” This can be done solo or with a partner and involves exploring a variety of sensations on the body representative of the different Blueprints to determine what does or does not feel pleasurable.
Here’s a teasing taste of what this touch exploration might look like.
A/B Game Touch Preferences and somatic responses that may happen with each Blueprint:
Energetic – Hovering over skin, very light touch, teasing touch. You’ll know their Energetic is getting fed if their body quivers or shakes with these touches.
Sensual – Feathers, fur or soft objects, a slow & luxurious touch, massage with essential oils. They may moan with delight or cry when touched a certain way that feeds them.
Sexual – Direct touch to genitals, nipple touch, vibrator directly on genitals, deep massage using sensation item. Good to note that if their genitals are not touched, they may get bored with the process.
Kinky – Slaps, spanking, scratches, playful nipple touch or pinches, feeling restraints on wrists. Notice if they growl or giggle when given the type of touch that feeds them.
Shapeshifter – All of these and more! Their body will probably adore all the things!
And now, my lovers, let’s get your Erotic Blueprint properly fed!
What is feeding a Blueprint and why should you care?
To feed your Erotic Blueprint is to give the body what it wants and needs to feel safe, nourished, satisfied, and loved. It’s a beautiful way of honoring yourself and your partner in the giving and receiving of what brings you both the most arousing pleasure. When our sexuality is properly fed, we are more connected, grounded, and turned on to our vital life energy.
Here are some exquisite ways to feed yourself or your partner(s) in the different Blueprints:
Energetic:
Find the “vulvas” that exist all over the body, like the palm of the hand, the top of the skull/crown chakra, the many crevices of the body, and lightly stroke as if stroking the vulva.
Have your partner feed you by lightly hovering hands over different areas of your body to determine what is energetically pleasurable,
Create a tantalizing space for a super slow, anticipatory Energetic foreplay session.
Sensual:
For solo play, put on some old-school seductive music a la Marvin Gaye or some slow sensual trip-hop in the vein of Morcheeba—feeding yourself decadent cacao truffles with juicy fresh strawberries; savoring each bite.
Have your partner blindfold you, gently lay you on the bed, then seductively kiss and caress your body with feathers or something silky—exploring every delicious crevice of your body.
Sexual:
Indulge in some blazing hot solo toy play all over your body, particularly focusing on your genitals.
Make your partner squeal with direct genital play and massage using vibrators, dildos, etc—not forgetting the landscape of the perineum.
Kinky:
Go solo and create the fantasy of your choice by indulging kinky sensation items on your body such as chains, whips, paddles, ropes, etc.
If you’re just slipping into kink, maybe start with some light thigh slaps, scratches, neck biting, nipple pinches, combined with some dirty talk, restraint and power play. (For deeper kink play, please find a good kink instructor to show you the way.)
Shapeshifter:
Feed yourself with all the things: blindfolds, feathers, dildos, wands, ropes, chains, crystals, silky things, etc.
Having your partner teasingly taste your genitals and then move up for a kiss of the lips then a slap on the thigh would meet your Energetic anticipation needs, as well as your Sexual and Kinky.
Another juicy component of feeding the Blueprints is speaking the Blueprints! Being able to speak in our partner’s Blueprint is a way to honor, arouse and vibrationally connect with them.
Try these ways of Speaking the Blueprints:
Energetic:
Speak slowly with a light tone and low volume, very spacious and flowing as if riding waves of light and energy and say, “Ahhhhh, I would love it if you would worship my portal tonight.”
Sensual:
Speak in a “Barry White” tone with a low pitch, resonant in the chest and with a slow speed as if savoring every... single... word... as if dripping with chocolate... and deliciousness... mmmmmmmm.
Gaze into your lover’s eyes and say, “I want to explore every. single. crevice of your decadent body.”
Sexual:
Speak direct, but filled with desire in a low to mid-volume range and low pitch, with medium-high air.
A classic sexual go-to phrase that never disappoints, “I want your cock in my pussy…now!”
Kinky:
For Doms, be very direct and condescending in a low monotone voice that elicits control and say, “You’re a pretty little slave, aren’t you? Tonight, you’re mine and I expect you to behave.”
And to that the Sub may respond in a soft, low-volume tone...head down, eyes looking up, “Yes, Master. I promise to behave, sir. It is my pleasure to serve you.”
Shapeshifter:
Move chaotically like a chameleon between each of the Blueprint words, moving from direct to indirect, low to high volume and pitch, with an all-over-the-place melody at a low to high speed then say, “You’re a fucking God. Now, put on this blindfold. I’m going to devour your delicious body in such a cosmically orgasmic way.”
Ahhhh, beloveds, now see how we put it all together? It’s a beautiful thing to be able to feed and speak to your lover in the way that best honors and gets them aroused. Stay tuned to future issues of BRAINZ Magazine, where I’ll divulge even more sultry secrets of the Erotic Blueprints.
Beth Brown, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
As a Certified and Licensed Erotic Blueprint™ Coach trained directly by world-renowned Somatic Sexologist, Jaiya, Beth is clear on her mission to anchor the frequency of love and to help shift consciousness on the planet around sexuality from shame to full self-expression. Her passion is helping middle-aged women reclaim access to their divine creative life force and erotic power so that they are shining in their full radiant bloom. Beth is also a gifted and internationally known therapeutic harpist and sound healer, incorporating her talents to enhance and deepen her clients’ healing and embodiment experience. She is a graduate of the International Harp Therapy Program in San Diego as a Certified Therapeutic Harp Practitioner (C.H.T.P.) and studied sound healing at the Globe Institute of Sound & Consciousness in San Francisco. She is also an Accelerated Evolution Transformational Guide, having studied under the tutelage of Satyen Raja of the Accelerated Evolution Academy.
